The long-awaited third phase of relationships is falling in love with a girl.
Every guy looks forward to this phase because it makes your life simple and enjoyable.
It also opens the door to lots of beautiful women in your future.
First off, tell her that you care about her and that you want to see her again
Tell her how beautiful she is, how much you enjoy her company, how much fun you have with her, and the many wonderful experiences you have had with her.
Just spend time with her, show her that you really enjoy being with her, how comfortable you feel with her.
Take her on a romantic date to a romantic location and make it a romantic evening.
Go the extra mile with her. Send her flowers, put them in a rose garden, or any place that she likes.
Send her chocolate or chocolate treats.
Sweet-talk her. You don’t want to use a more vulgar term like seduce, but sweet-talk her.
Tell her all the nice things you think about her. Make her feel special and loved. Try to get her to like you, too.
Remember that the hardest thing to do is make someone like you. It takes a lot of work, and even then, not everyone will.
The easiest way is to tell her that you like her and care about her. Then listen to what she has to say back.
Ask her what she wants you to do.
Do your part
A bit of flirting can be fine, but it’s better not to push it.
Just be upfront with her, say you care about her and see where things go from there.
If you are really going to get to the point where you ask for a relationship, then you need to start getting intimate.
No, not a sexual one, but a romantic one.
This means the next step is to share something with her that you have in common, like food, interests, or something else that she likes.
Use any of the below strategies for getting her to enjoy sharing something with you.
Here is a list of some of the things that most guys like to share, in no particular order:
- Board Games
- Book (s)
I watch a lot of television and movies, but I don’t have a lot of movies in my collection.
I’ve been buying them on Amazon so that I can binge-watch movies for free with Prime Video.
First, ask her if she would like to watch one with you, and see what she likes
You can watch it together if you like.
Second, if she likes it, then ask for the first season or two. You can always watch the rest later.
Third, ask her if she wants to watch one every week. If she likes them, she will buy them and watch them with you.
If you are truly serious about asking for a relationship with a girl, then she will buy the movies and shows with you.
If she doesn’t like it, you can make it up to her, and let her watch it in another setting.
I’m a fan of introducing her to the greatest movie ever, so I’ll buy the entire movie.
I’ll watch it with her, and then I’ll give her the movie on DVD when she wants to watch it later.
It’s the least I can do for her.
So, why don’t most guys do this? Because they don’t care about her and don’t want to risk wasting her time, or theirs.
Even if you are not in a relationship, the next step is to get physical with her.
Physical attraction makes a lot of girls go weak in the knees. It’s a natural thing, and you need to be the one who makes the move.
Here are some good ways to get physical with her:
- Go on a physical date
- Buy her flowers or chocolates
- Give her a back massage
- Make her laugh
- Try to kiss her when you are both alone
Notice that I didn’t say “kiss her”.
You are not going to try to kiss her on the first date. That’s too soon.
Because if you try to kiss her on the first date, she is going to laugh at you.
She’s not going to like you. If you do, and she laughs at you, then you lost. You got played.
You’re just not ready. Don’t waste her time and mine.
You need to earn her affection and admiration first, and she can only do that if you earn it.
The best way to do that is to do something to earn her affection. Be romantic, treat her like you would treat a girlfriend.
By earning affection, and subsequently a relationship, you make her like you.
You earn her respect. You make her comfortable around you. You make her happy, or at least make her want to be happy with you.
You make her happy and she will have no choice but to respect you.
“But what if she doesn’t want to be with you if you don’t try to kiss her on the first date?”
That’s a real risk. She may say no, but you can always come back with something like “I’m sorry.
I thought we already established that it’s not appropriate to kiss on the first date”.
In other words, you could try to kiss her on the second date. Or the third. Or the fourth.
If you do kiss her on the first date, she may be a lesbian. But you’ll know it in time.
You want to avoid sex at all costs. You just don’t want to scare her away.
There is absolutely no reason to be having sex when you are just getting to know each other.