There’s been plenty of discussion about how different men and women really are, and when it comes to the relationship between males and females, what really sets the two sexes apart, some people think there’s a clear difference in what sets the two genders apart, and the one that stands out to the most people is what we are experiencing with romance in our respective relationships.
While some people may love this period of the year, when it seems everyone is seeking the perfect romantic gesture, one of the hardest things that a man has to deal with daily is figuring out what to say to a girl he really likes, and so one of the first things we need to do is determine what the appropriate way is to express his feelings.
This is especially difficult for a guy who has never been in a relationship before, or who is still waiting for the perfect woman, or for a guy who has already gotten the perfect woman but simply can’t find the right way to tell her.
For all of those guys who find themselves in this situation, we are going to help you out.
1. Start by having a conversation
Before we get into the details of what you should say to your crush, let’s talk a little bit about what you should be doing before you start the conversation.
The first thing you want to do before you start the conversation is figuring out what it is that your crush really means to you.
Because of the way women are, and because they have a hard time showing emotions, many of the things that they will say to you can’t be understood by the other sex, but to get it across, it is important to understand what it is that she likes, likes about you, or what is important to her in the relationship.
This is how you can get to the point where you can talk about it with her, and start to figure out how you can tell her that you are falling for her and you want to do something special for her, but that she must know it is not something that you feel pressured to do, but something you really want to do.
2. Have a heart-to-heart talk
This is what we are going to get into in the second part of this article.
So, once you have decided what you want to say, it’s time to find out how you can have a heart-to-heart talk with her about it.
This is an important piece of the puzzle for you because the more you have a conversation about what you want to say and how you want to say it, the more clarity you will have, and the more you will know how to react.
The next thing to do is to figure out how you are going to talk to her. What are the exact words you are going to use?
3. Greet her at the door with a kiss
If you feel comfortable enough, then you can start the conversation at the door by having a little peck on the cheek.
To be able to show her that you are eager to talk to her, you are going to want to be a little more physical, but this isn’t the time to go too far, because it is still important that you establish your intentions, and so be cautious.
After the kiss, tell her “Hi, I hope you have had a great day.”
4. Tell her something
The next part is to find out how you are going to tell her something. We suggest that you try to get her on the same page.
Maybe you can tell her “I am really, really into you,” and in some cases, even say something like, “I think I am falling in love with you.”
Whatever your approach is, it should be something along the lines of what you said about being ready to say something in the first point, but it shouldn’t be too big, because the idea is not to overwhelm her but to let her know that you care.
5. Repeat your intentions
Once you have found a way to tell her something without overwhelming her, it’s time to try to make sure that she gets what you are saying.
To do this, repeat your intentions to her and tell her again what they are. Try to repeat the phrase “I’m falling in love with you” at least 5 times.
Then tell her “That’s great, but you know what? I am feeling really overwhelmed because I love you.”
The idea here is to make sure that she understands what you are saying and that she understands that you want to give her the time to feel that you are not doing anything wrong and to let her know that you are not forcing anything