Tell her you have to go soon and you will really miss her and then throw in that one line “I wish we would’ve hung out longer.”

Use the suggestions and techniques presented here to maximize your chances of moving your friendship forward with the girl you want to be your best friend.

So you’re telling her bye and you go on to tell her your day was great.

Text example

“Hey, I had a great time with you! I hope you get home safely. See you soon!”

“Hey, girl. I had a blast hanging out with you tonight. I enjoyed talking to you and talking to your friend.”

“It was nice to get to know you better. Please take care.”

I’m not sure what type of girl she is but this chick seems a little too extra.

The best way to actually tell a girl bye will always be face-to-face

So, I don’t mean just A.K.A. typing out the words. I mean giving her your full attention while delivering that perfectly executed (or semi-performed) line.

Some girls take it too personally, so some girls prefer it being a little less direct. Either way,

I’m sure you know how to express that you have no interest in her.

Or, “I’m not going to be able to hang out. Sorry to let you down.”

I want to clarify one more thing about texts. If you see that she just checked in, feel free to drop her an answer to the question.

Let her know that you aren’t interested or not able to hang out.

Still not sure if she’s interested or not? Consider using some of these easy ways to read a girl’s texts…

She just left

If she was interested and you responded with a “Sorry I couldn’t hang out,” then this might be a bit more clear than a simple “Sorry.”

If she responds with “What did you say,” then it’s quite clear she doesn’t want to hang out.

If she asks you what you said, this might be a better approach.

The other alternative is that she didn’t respond and you’re both too shy to ask her directly.

What I want to say to her

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Try not to use text as an excuse. Here are some common lines.

  • I’m Not That Into You
  • I’m Sorry
  • It Wasn’t Me
  • You Never Asked Me
  • I Never Agreed
  • You Wanted To
  • Bye
  • Let’s Talk Later
  • The Talk Is Over
  • Be Clear And Let Her Know

Know when it’s time to call it a night. And, of course, if you’re unsure about what to say…just give her a friendly brush off and say you’re sorry.

If she doesn’t care about me anymore

And if she doesn’t care about you any longer, take it one step further and tell her you had a great time, but you would appreciate it if she didn’t text you anymore.

If she tells you “I hate you,” that’s pretty telling.

If she tries to make it clear by sending you a rather nasty, emoji-filled, screenshot of an actual conversation between you two…that’s even more telling.

Check out her Facebook page

This seems like a natural way to start a conversation with a girl who is not online. But, there are a few details to keep in mind.

First, if you send a photo or screen capture of a girl’s Facebook page, she will know exactly what you are talking about.

Secondly, the girl might not have the same Facebook picture that she posted.

Since Facebook often displays multiple images of a girl, you have to be really careful about what you send.

Additionally, she might already have a photo of you up on her page as well. Lastly, you might be asking her for her phone number, so don’t send anything too racy.

Something about her that might not be obvious to you is that she might be uncomfortable with your photos, especially ones that show your genitals.

Ask her if she is on Facebook

Instead of asking her if she is on Facebook, send her a message through Facebook’s Messenger.

Then, wait for a response. The reason to do this is that a person can text only her Facebook friends, so it’s likely that she is friends with someone at school.

Once you are on Facebook, you can find out what her profile looks like and begin to figure out where she is from.

There is no way to tell this from her Facebook profile image, but if you know what a friend’s Facebook profile picture looks like, that should be enough to help you out.

There are many ways to find out where a girl is from, but it is easiest to do it through Facebook’s user location tool.

Send her a private message on Facebook.

If you haven’t already, start a Facebook conversation with a girl you are interested in.