As a man, I always found it difficult to appreciate a woman in words.
I could never equate the feminine energy of a woman to the mindset and essence of men.
I found myself hating the women in my life, especially the ones that I was dating.
My life, at times, was quite turbulent because I did not know how to treat a woman.
I learned a few years ago from social studies that the word ‘lady’ originates from the Italian word ‘lamina which means ‘lady’.
I was fascinated by this idea. Now I know what this word means and I feel that I can appreciate women in words.
The following article details how to appreciate a woman in words.
Appreciate the feminine energy
The feminine energy is always inside of you. It is neither seen nor heard.
It is a feeling, an essence that is difficult to understand because it is not determined by gender.
In the book, “The 5 Love Languages”, Dr. Gary Chapman describes the feminine energy as “warmth, compassion, nurturing and appreciation.”
You can see this feeling when you look at your mother. She is compassionate and nurturing and appreciative.
She is warm and gentle in your presence and you will feel warmth in your heart.
She could also be loud, bossy, bossy, and bossy. You will feel your insides constricting whenever you’re around her because you fear her wrath.
When you are with your mother, you’re learning how to be gentle and polite and how to appreciate her. This is your first life lesson.
It does not come naturally to all of us. When you do notice the subtle energy of your mother, you must appreciate the part of her that is subtle.
You can do this by saying good things about her and even letting her know how much you love her.
When you are with a lady, you are learning how to appreciate her feminine energy. This can be a challenge because you will often be put in a situation where she does not treat you nicely.
You may be being condescending and being a jerk because you have been raised by a jerk. You might want to learn how to appreciate a woman in words, too.
You must be gentle and have positive energy around her. Treat her with respect.
You are learning how to be respectful and how to appreciate a woman in words.
Encourage her
You will hear people say, “You can’t please everybody.”
You might think this is a childish comment but it is true. You cannot please everybody.
But if you can help a woman be happy, you’re helping yourself. This is why you have to try to encourage a woman in words.
You have to acknowledge the joy she brings to you. You have to let her know that you are grateful for the effect she has on your life.
You have to be gentle and be loving. Use gentleness as a strategy to help encourage her.
When you are gentle around a woman, she will be encouraged.
Do this to appreciate a woman in words:
Look for the feminine energy. Find someone that brings out that feminine energy in you.
Be gentle around her and express that gentleness.
Spend time with her, make sure she feels loved and appreciated.
Praise her and let her know that you appreciate her.
Appreciate her emotions
The masculine energy has been taught that it is the action-oriented energy of the male.
The masculine energy is to control and dominate the world. It is dangerous and has caused great harm to mankind.
The feminine energy has been taught that it is the feelings-oriented energy of the female.
The feminine energy is to love and nurture and to give comfort. It is soft and nurturing and has been used to good effect throughout history.
By changing the words we use to express our feelings and emotions, you can positively encourage a woman in words.
Appreciate the feminine emotions
The first thing you must learn is how to express your feelings.
You will often have a hard time expressing your emotions verbally because you have been conditioned to “be a man”.
As a result of conditioning, you might find it difficult to share your true feelings in words.
When you are with a woman that is having a difficult day, use tenderness to be supportive.
Find out what is causing her discomfort and feel her emotions. You can do this by being tender in your voice and your body language.
For example, you might say to a woman, “I know that you feel bad that I had to go to work today. It’s okay to feel this way. I get upset when you feel bad too.”
Be gentle and supportive.
Practice tenderness
The next thing you must learn is how to express your tenderness. There are two ways to do this:
You can “flirt” with a woman by being romantic and open to receiving her tenderness.
You can “offer your tenderness” by being emotionally available to her.
When you practice, you will find that you will be able to open up and show a little of your tenderness to a woman.
You will also find that you will be able to have an emotionally open relationship with her.
Once you practice tenderness with a woman, you will learn to recognize her tenderness and experience a closer relationship with her.
For example, when you are having a rough day with a woman, she might offer to comfort you. You could hug her.
You could say something like, “Let me hold your hand.”
She might reciprocate by holding your hand and saying, “I can’t imagine how I’d survive this if I didn’t have you in my life.”
As you practice this tenderness, you will find that it makes you a better listener and a better communicator.
You will be able to “read” the feelings and desires of a woman and be there for her.
